When people first learn about kink and BDSM, the extensiveness of the different activities under BDSM can be quite overwhelming; leaving newcomers wondering where they should start. If that sounds like you, we are here to help with five different BDSM activities for newbies to try out.
Articles by Javay - The Millennial Sexpert
Articles by Javay - The Millennial Sexpert
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5 Beginner-Friendly BDSM Activities to Explore Your Kinky Side
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The Rundown on Vaginal Tightening Creams & Gels
The tightness of a vagina is a commonly discussed thing in media and in lots of different circles, but it’s talked about as “Oh, they’ve had sex with so many people, I’m sure their vagina is so stretched,” or “I wish my vagina was tighter, like a porn stars.” The conversation around vaginal tightness is missing some important details so let’s talk about that and share some things that might be of interest to you.
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Role-Playing in Public
Role-playing in public can be a little tricky. There are many things to consider, such as how far things can go before it becomes too sexual for the public, how other individuals in public may respond or react, and what role play to do and where to do it. There are many ways to incorporate role-playing in public spaces that don’t have to run the mill of getting you banned from your favorite places.
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A Deep Dive Into Condoms
It’s National Condom Week and though many of us generally know what a condom is, there are a lot of important details about condoms that are not known. There are also so many ways you can use condoms to add more pleasure and sensation to your sexual activities. So let’s dive into the world of possibilities with condoms.
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Pillow Talk Product Review: Flintts Mints
Have you tried Flintts Mints? I had heard of these from a friend and was not a believer in their effectiveness. I was dead wrong not to believe because these mints are powerful. I legit love everything about these mints!
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Is it a Fetish or a Kink: Exploring & Making Space for Your Fetishes
January 19th is International Fetish Day and we don’t think fetishes get enough time in the spotlight. October is dedicated to kinks and BDSM for #Kinktober, and fetishes are usually lumped into that, but kinks and fetishes aren’t the same. So, we are going to give fetishes their time in the sun right now.
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Maximize Your Orgasms
Earth-moving. Meh. Mind-blowing. Mediocre. Healing. These are all descriptions of orgasms that people have used. If you want to have orgasms that are more Earth-moving and mind-blowing than meh and mediocre there are some things that you can do. Maximizing your orgasms doesn’t have to be daunting or overwhelming. With a few additions or changes, you can have orgasms that will make Hedone jealous.
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Get Knotty: Explore Shibari and Rope Bondage This Holiday Season
If you want to get all tied up this holiday season, but in a sexy artistic, and erotic way you should consider shibari or rope bondage. It is more comfortable than tying yourself or your partner up with ribbon or tinsel. Shibari is a Japanese form of rope bondage that is more than just being tied up with rope, it is about the art of tying wit rope. This means that intricate designs are created with the rope. Rope bondage is similar to shibari, but different because it does not focus on the artistic aspect of rope tying. The thing to remember about the difference of the two is the focus on art. Regardless of which you choose to engage in, shibari or rope bondage, it is important to make sure you educated before tying knots on yourself of your partner.
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Have a Spanking Good Time: A Primer on Spanking
Spankings were something to dread growing up, but now as adults, so many of us look forward to a good spank, we yearn for it. If you aren’t someone who yearns for spankings but want to in honor of the holiday season (Spanksgiving being the holiday, not Thanksgiving), then you may be wondering where or how to get started with spanking. Here is a little primer to get you ready to have a spanking good time!
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A Quick Guide to Getting Started in Kink and BDSM
October is Kinktober, which means that for a lot of people, all that is on their minds is kink, BDSM, and fetishes. But if you are someone who is just learning about kink and BDSM this month can be a little overwhelming, so many activities and things to participate and engage in and some of them are more geared toward advanced kinksters, but what if that isn’t you? Have no fear! We are here to help you enjoy Kinktober, just as much as everyone else. Here is a quick guide to getting started in kink & BDSM for beginners because everyone needs to know where to start so they can engage safely and have a good time.
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Introducing Sex Toys into Your Relationship
If you have been wanting to introduce sex toys into your relationship but have been nervous about it, you aren’t alone and we're here to help!
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Back to School: The Perfect Toys for College Students
Hello August! It’s that time of year when you are gearing up to head back to college, and if you are starting to pack, there are some essentials you might want to consider adding. Just because you live in a dorm or an apartment doesn’t mean that you should have to sacrifice pleasure and sexual exploration, so here is our Back-to-School Guide: Sex Toy Edition!
