Earth-moving. Meh. Mind-blowing. Mediocre. Healing. These are all descriptions of orgasms that people have used. If you want to have orgasms that are more Earth-moving and mind-blowing than meh and mediocre there are some things that you can do. Maximizing your orgasms doesn’t have to be daunting or overwhelming. With a few additions or changes, you can have orgasms that will make Hedone jealous.
Articles by Javay - The Millennial Sexpert
Articles by Javay - The Millennial Sexpert
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Maximize Your Orgasms
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Get Knotty: Explore Shibari and Rope Bondage This Holiday Season
If you want to get all tied up this holiday season, but in a sexy artistic, and erotic way you should consider shibari or rope bondage. It is more comfortable than tying yourself or your partner up with ribbon or tinsel. Shibari is a Japanese form of rope bondage that is more than just being tied up with rope, it is about the art of tying wit rope. This means that intricate designs are created with the rope. Rope bondage is similar to shibari, but different because it does not focus on the artistic aspect of rope tying. The thing to remember about the difference of the two is the focus on art. Regardless of which you choose to engage in, shibari or rope bondage, it is important to make sure you educated before tying knots on yourself of your partner.
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Have a Spanking Good Time: A Primer on Spanking
Spankings were something to dread growing up, but now as adults, so many of us look forward to a good spank, we yearn for it. If you aren’t someone who yearns for spankings but want to in honor of the holiday season (Spanksgiving being the holiday, not Thanksgiving), then you may be wondering where or how to get started with spanking. Here is a little primer to get you ready to have a spanking good time!
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A Quick Guide to Getting Started in Kink and BDSM
October is Kinktober, which means that for a lot of people, all that is on their minds is kink, BDSM, and fetishes. But if you are someone who is just learning about kink and BDSM this month can be a little overwhelming, so many activities and things to participate and engage in and some of them are more geared toward advanced kinksters, but what if that isn’t you? Have no fear! We are here to help you enjoy Kinktober, just as much as everyone else. Here is a quick guide to getting started in kink & BDSM for beginners because everyone needs to know where to start so they can engage safely and have a good time.
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Introducing Sex Toys into Your Relationship
If you have been wanting to introduce sex toys into your relationship but have been nervous about it, you aren’t alone and we're here to help!
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Back to School: The Perfect Toys for College Students
Hello August! It’s that time of year when you are gearing up to head back to college, and if you are starting to pack, there are some essentials you might want to consider adding. Just because you live in a dorm or an apartment doesn’t mean that you should have to sacrifice pleasure and sexual exploration, so here is our Back-to-School Guide: Sex Toy Edition!
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Explore the World of Anal Toys
It’s Anal August, and whether you are just getting started, have a little experience, or are a seasoned pro, there are so many different anal toys available to you to participate in this joyous month. It can be a little overwhelming at times to decide on anal toys, so we figured we would give you a little run down on the world of anal toys to help you find your next toy for maximum pleasure this month. I do have to let you know the cardinal rule of anal toys before we begin–if it does not have a flared base, then it should not be put in your butt. There are a few overarching categories for anal toys that we are going to go in-depth on, so let’s dive in!
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Adaptive Toys and Tools for Enhanced Pleasure (PV Couples Edition)
Shopping for sex toys when you have a disability can be a little intimidating because a lot of packaging doesn’t show how the products can be used in different ways. Still, sex toys are highly versatile and can be adapted to meet your needs in various ways. If you have been looking for adaptive toys, you are in the right place. Here is a small selection of adaptive toys that couples can use, especially couples with a Penis-Vagina combination.
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Overcome Barriers to Orgasm: Common Challenges & Solutions
Orgasms are hard and not for the reasons you think. Orgasms are a release of tension in the body and the realities of adulthood and life make that release quite difficult. If you struggle to reach orgasm, you are not alone, and the struggle is more common than you probably think. Don’t give up hope, though, because I am here to help you better understand what makes it challenging and offer some solutions that you can try to achieve a climax.
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Stay Connected to Your Lover with CalExotics Connect
In our continuously evolving world new technological discoveries and advances happen every day and the sex toy industry is not removed from those advances. In recent years app-controlled toys have been becoming more and more popular and thanks to CalExotics there is a new line of app-controlled toys for you to enjoy–the CalExotics Connect Line.
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How to Give Your Partner the Best Erotic Massage
Massages are like an aphrodisiac. When done well and the details are just right it can be just the thing to flip the switch and put someone in the mood for intimacy and some sexy time. If you want to treat massages as aphrodisiacs and ignite some intimacy with your partner, you have to hone your massage skills. We can’t teach you everything about giving massages, but we can offer some tips on ways to make a massage more erotic and enticing for you and your partner(s).
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Cool Things Down While Keeping It Steamy: 3 Ways to Explore Cold Temperature Play
As the temperature rises, we tend to want not to be touched. We are already producing our own body heat, plus humidity and the hotter temperatures; who is trying to put bodies on top of each other? Well, plenty of people, but when you consider the heat, it seems less appealing, but that’s why temperature play is the saving grace during summertime. But most specifically, cool temperature play. Here are three different ways you can try temperature play to cool things down and still have some fun, be it with a partner or by yourself.
