Kink and BDSM

January 19th is International Fetish Day and we don’t think fetishes get enough time in the spotlight. October is dedicated to kinks and BDSM for #Kinktober, and fetishes are usually lumped into that, but kinks and fetishes aren’t the same. So, we are going to give fetishes their time in the sun right now.

Have you been looking to get a little knotty, but need help figuring out where to start? That’s completely fair and common. Regardless of whether you are trying to get all tied up on your own or with a partner the starting point is always the same. Making sure you have the foundations of rope bondage is pivotal to having a safe, pleasurable, and knotty good time. 

If you want to get all tied up this holiday season, but in a sexy artistic, and erotic way you should consider shibari or rope bondage. It is more comfortable than tying yourself or your partner up with ribbon or tinsel. Shibari is a Japanese form of rope bondage that is more than just being tied up with rope, it is about the art of tying wit rope. This means that intricate designs are created with the rope. Rope bondage is similar to shibari, but different because it does not focus on the artistic aspect of rope tying. The thing to remember about the difference of the two is the focus on art. Regardless of which you choose to engage in, shibari or rope bondage, it is important to make sure you educated before tying knots on yourself of your partner.

Spankings were something to dread growing up, but now as adults, so many of us look forward to a good spank, we yearn for it. If you aren’t someone who yearns for spankings but want to in honor of the holiday season (Spanksgiving being the holiday, not Thanksgiving), then you may be wondering where or how to get started with spanking. Here is a little primer to get you ready to have a spanking good time!

Being an adult can put a damper on sex lives and living as our kinkiest selves because we have jobs, bills to pay, kids to drop off for different things, and laundry that never seems to be done. But what if there was a way to have some kinkiness in the everyday, especially if you have a dom/sub dynamic? Here are four different ways to engage in power play during the workday so you don’t have to table your kinky side for adulthood.

Have you ever thought “I would sleep with (insert fictional creature or monster)?” Well, have no fear, you are not alone and there is a name for that. Sexual attraction to monsters is actually called teratophilia, but in layman’s terms, it is a monster kink. And though monsters may be relegated to the pages of books and the world of movies and TV shows, doesn’t mean you can’t get off to a monster. Thanks to Creature Cocks, being a monster fucker can be a reality! So let’s explore the monster fucking options and fantasies together, shall we?

October is Kinktober, which means that for a lot of people, all that is on their minds is kink, BDSM, and fetishes. But if you are someone who is just learning about kink and BDSM this month can be a little overwhelming, so many activities and things to participate and engage in and some of them are more geared toward advanced kinksters, but what if that isn’t you? Have no fear! We are here to help you enjoy Kinktober, just as much as everyone else. Here is a quick guide to getting started in kink & BDSM for beginners because everyone needs to know where to start so they can engage safely and have a good time. 

It is Sexual Health Awareness Month, which for a lot of people conjures up thoughts about STIs, safer sex, and preventing pregnancy which is totally fair. If that is an aspect of sexual health and wellness that is important to you then barrier methods and contraceptives might be on your mind. For a lot of people, external condoms are the only barrier method they use, but what if I told you there were more options available, and some options were better suited for different activities? Well, that is the case, and I am going to help you better understand how to pick the right barrier method for you!

Unless you’re in school yourself or have school-aged children the excitement and energy of going back to school might not be a reality for you outside of the barrage of back-to-school shopping commercials being fed to you. But why can’t everyone experience the excitement of going back to school in some way? Who’s to say you can’t. Role play is an option and allows for all of us to relive the glory days of being in school, but sans the homework, uniforms, and quizzes and tests. So, here’s a short how-to for engaging in the naughtiest teacher-student roleplay that will surely get you sent to the principal’s office.

Brats are infamous within kink & BDSM for their blatant disregard of what they are told and their depraved desire for being punished ;) . Still, if you’re new to being a brat you may not know best how to capitalize on the reputation of being a brat. That’s where we come in to help you. Here are a few different ways to explore your bratty side, whether by yourself or a partner.

When people first learn about kink and BDSM, the extensiveness of the different activities under BDSM can be quite overwhelming; leaving newcomers wondering where they should start. If that sounds like you, we are here to help with five different BDSM activities for newbies to try out.

There are quite a few ways that you can make your masturbation kinkier, whether you are into impact play, bondage, roleplay, or power dynamics. Here’s some guidance to help you sprinkle some kinkiness during your solo time.