Sex Tips

Got questions? We’ve got answers! Introducing Ask The Den, Lion’s Den’s newest Q&A series dedicated to helping you explore your pleasure confidently, safely, and with all the info you need. From products and techniques to tips and tricks, we’re here to help you navigate the world of intimacy and self-discovery.

Ever wonder what really gets you going? Arousal is more than just a moment—it’s a mind-body connection. In this sensual guide, we break down the brain science, explore the body’s secret hot spots, and share expert-approved boosters (and toys) that take pleasure to the next level.

The shower: It's not just for washing up. It's a playground. The steam, the water, the sensation of skin against skin—it’s the perfect space to turn up the heat, whether you're flying solo or with a partner. Here’s how to make your next shower session unforgettable.

Role-playing in public can be a little tricky. There are many things to consider, such as how far things can go before it becomes too sexual for the public, how other individuals in public may respond or react, and what role play to do and where to do it. There are many ways to incorporate role-playing in public spaces that don’t have to run the mill of getting you banned from your favorite places.

If you’ve got a competitive side or want a way to spice things up, we’d like to encourage you to do a little gambling. Not gambling with money, though. What we mean is making a sexy bet with your partner. The prize for the winner is a sexy activity that everyone can get on board with. Place your bets! 

It’s National Condom Week and though many of us generally know what a condom is, there are a lot of important details about condoms that are not known. There are also so many ways you can use condoms to add more pleasure and sensation to your sexual activities. So let’s dive into the world of possibilities with condoms.

Who says furniture is just for sitting or sleeping? Your home is filled with opportunities to explore new dimensions of intimacy, and with a little creativity, you can turn everyday pieces into exciting tools for connection, experimentation, and pleasure. From the couch to the dining room table, let’s dive into positioning tips and playful ways to spice up your space.

Earth-moving. Meh. Mind-blowing. Mediocre. Healing. These are all descriptions of orgasms that people have used. If you want to have orgasms that are more Earth-moving and mind-blowing than meh and mediocre there are some things that you can do. Maximizing your orgasms doesn’t have to be daunting or overwhelming. With a few additions or changes, you can have orgasms that will make Hedone jealous.

The holidays are here, and while they’re often filled with hustle and bustle, it’s also the perfect time to focus on connection, joy, and a little extra intimacy. This year, why not spice up the season with a 12-day countdown to pleasure? Whether you’re looking to build anticipation or simply carve out moments for connection, this playful and sexy plan will have you both feeling the holiday spirit.

At some point, nearly everyone worries about lasting long enough to fully enjoy intimate moments with their partner. It’s natural to feel a bit disappointed when the intensity builds, only to peak too soon. But don’t stress – with some mindful techniques and a little patience, you can gain more control and create deeply satisfying experiences for both you and your partner.

Orgasms are hard and not for the reasons you think. Orgasms are a release of tension in the body and the realities of adulthood and life make that release quite difficult. If you struggle to reach orgasm, you are not alone, and the struggle is more common than you probably think. Don’t give up hope, though, because I am here to help you better understand what makes it challenging and offer some solutions that you can try to achieve a climax.

Massages are like an aphrodisiac. When done well and the details are just right it can be just the thing to flip the switch and put someone in the mood for intimacy and some sexy time. If you want to treat massages as aphrodisiacs and ignite some intimacy with your partner, you have to hone your massage skills. We can’t teach you everything about giving massages, but we can offer some tips on ways to make a massage more erotic and enticing for you and your partner(s).