Sex Tips

The holidays are here, and while they’re often filled with hustle and bustle, it’s also the perfect time to focus on connection, joy, and a little extra intimacy. This year, why not spice up the season with a 12-day countdown to pleasure? Whether you’re looking to build anticipation or simply carve out moments for connection, this playful and sexy plan will have you both feeling the holiday spirit.

At some point, nearly everyone worries about lasting long enough to fully enjoy intimate moments with their partner. It’s natural to feel a bit disappointed when the intensity builds, only to peak too soon. But don’t stress – with some mindful techniques and a little patience, you can gain more control and create deeply satisfying experiences for both you and your partner.

Orgasms are hard and not for the reasons you think. Orgasms are a release of tension in the body and the realities of adulthood and life make that release quite difficult. If you struggle to reach orgasm, you are not alone, and the struggle is more common than you probably think. Don’t give up hope, though, because I am here to help you better understand what makes it challenging and offer some solutions that you can try to achieve a climax.

Massages are like an aphrodisiac. When done well and the details are just right it can be just the thing to flip the switch and put someone in the mood for intimacy and some sexy time. If you want to treat massages as aphrodisiacs and ignite some intimacy with your partner, you have to hone your massage skills. We can’t teach you everything about giving massages, but we can offer some tips on ways to make a massage more erotic and enticing for you and your partner(s).

As the temperature rises, we tend to want not to be touched. We are already producing our own body heat, plus humidity and the hotter temperatures; who is trying to put bodies on top of each other? Well, plenty of people, but when you consider the heat, it seems less appealing, but that’s why temperature play is the saving grace during summertime. But most specifically, cool temperature play. Here are three different ways you can try temperature play to cool things down and still have some fun, be it with a partner or by yourself.

July is Disability Pride Month! People with disabilities account for roughly 27 percent of the population in the United States, and this month, we take extra steps to raise awareness by providing information, support, and opportunities that help them lead productive and fulfilling lives—including sex lives. Many people assume that disabled people are asexual and have no desire for sex. That is entirely false.  Disabled persons still have the ability to become aroused and enjoy sex with the proper modifications. Sex should be fun, inclusive, and for everybody. 

69 day is approaching, June 9th, and if you are tired of the same old, same old every time you get into this position, you aren’t alone. 69 can be a very monotonous position, but with a bit of creativity and added accouterments, you can have a whole new experience in 69. A very good starting point for shaking up your 69ing is positioning. Obviously, you stay with head to feet, but you can do that in many ways – laying on your sides, holding someone in a handstand, or even more athletically, in a plank. But if changing positions isn’t enough or too much in terms of a workout, there are a few other ways to add a little spice.

Did you know that today is National Outdoor Intercourse Day? Yep, that’s right–a day all for outdoor sex! Now, before you run outside and start doing it on the front lawn, there are some things that you should know and be prepared for. Outside of just legal considerations, there are a few areas you might want to think ahead about to be the most prepared and make your outdoor romp a pleasurable experience. So here are eight tips for getting sexy in the great outdoors today and any other day.

Hey there, fellow pleasure-seekers! Let's talk about a topic that's often whispered about but deserves to be shouted from the rooftops: sex and aging. Yes, you heard that right – as we mature, our sexual experiences evolve, and there's a whole world of exploration waiting for us!

For cannabis lovers across the world, 4/20 is a popular holiday dedicated to enjoying the green goodness. If you aren’t a regular cannabis user but have been intrigued by it maybe, consider participating in this 4/20 to see how cannabis enhances sexual activity. There are so many ways in which you can incorporate cannabis into your sexy time, and we just wanted to share a few options if you are new to the ganja.

Have you been looking for something sweet? Well, you are in luck because it’s Cake and Cunnilingus Day. This holiday was created to mirror Steak and Blowjob Day, which is celebrated on March 14th. If you are planning to participate in this sweet holiday, then I have some tips for you to ensure your cunnilingus is next level and just as good as the cake.

April is STI Awareness Month, which is extremely important because there is still so much misinformation out in the world about STIs. If we are going to get to a place where STIs aren’t stigmatized and shrouded in shame, then we all need to understand STIs better. So, let’s have a real chat about STIs–no scare tactics, no sugar coating, just the honest truth, shall we?