Create the Ultimate Masturbation Session

Create the Ultimate Masturbation Session

Posted By Javay- The Millennial Sexpert
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Create the Ultimate Masturbation Session

Treat yourself to a little indulgence

 

For many people, masturbation is something we do for quick pleasure, to ease some stress, or help us get a better night’s sleep. But what could masturbation be like if we were intentional in setting the mood, curating our space, and enjoying the full experience? The answer is mountain moving. So to help you have a mountain-moving masturbation session, here are some tips.

 

person sitting on bed in underpants and brown knit sweater. Right hand is between their legs and left hand is caressing left leg.person sitting on bed in underpants and brown knit sweater. Right hand is between their legs and left hand is caressing left leg.

 

Curate the Environment

Being comfortable is essential to having the ultimate masturbation session. Prepping your environment can include cleaning it, picking a new setting, or telling your roommates to leave you alone or be out of the house for a certain amount of time.

Prep your space by cleaning up a bit: put on fresh bed sheets, put away the laundry on the other side of your bed, or clear off the couch. Whatever would be a distraction during masturbation, clean it up. If you want this ultimate session to be in a new setting, you can get a hotel room for yourself and have a little staycation. If you are going to enjoy your ultimate masturbation session at home and you have roommates, and you don’t want to be disturbed, letting them know in advance is highly recommended. You don’t have to go into all the details with them, but just letting them know that you need some alone time in the home can suffice.

 

Clear Out Distractions

Life is busy and tends to be go-go-go, but intentionally clearing out the distractions enhances your masturbation session. A great way to clear distractions is to start with putting your phone on do not disturb (DND) or silent. For some of us, this can be difficult because we have work or children that we need to be available. If this is the case for you, set important numbers as favorites so that they can still come through on DND, but try your hardest to ignore additional notifications. 

If you have pets, put them outside the room. Some pets have no problem being in the room during masturbation, and others are like, how dare you enjoy pleasure rather than entertain me. Regardless of your pet’s personality, giving them the boot from your masturbation session location can allow you to focus solely on you.

 

man in the shower with back facing the camera. Right hand is behind back, touching their shoulders. Head is bent down.man in the shower with back facing the camera. Right hand is behind back, touching their shoulders. Head is bent down.

 

Set the Mood with Your Senses

Now to set the mood. First, decide the kind of mood you want, hot and sexy, sweet and sensual, or fun and flirty. Then, once you have chosen, create that mood by focusing on your senses. 

Sight 

Adjust the lighting. Does natural light make you feel more sensual? Open the blinds or curtains. Does the mystery of the dark get you aroused? Turn off all the lights and close the shutters. Are you thinking of something more romantic? Light candles galore or just a few. Add some colors that exude that mood, like pink scarves over the lamps, grab some red blankets or put a lavender-colored sheet set on your bed. 

Smell

Focus on the smell. Light candles or add scents. If you want to relax, lavender is a wonderful scent to enjoy through a candle or oils. If a partner’s cologne or perfume arouses you, spray that on your pillows, wrists, or neck. 

Hearing

Add in some music to enhance the mood—some smooth jazz, R&B to feel sexy, or self-love pop anthems. Whatever your heart desires. Psst: Lion’s Den created the ultimate playlist for masturbation! Add it to your favorites on Spotify here.

Touch and Taste

Grab your go-to lube and get ready for a fun time with yourself. Light your favorite scented massage candle and massage those inner thighs to spark arousal. Some of them are edible, so you can lick your fingers to tease yourself.

 

Get Relaxed

No masturbation session will be ultimate or mountain-moving if you aren’t relaxed. Relaxation looks different for everyone, and you should do what works best for you. If clearing your head makes you feel more relaxed, maybe try meditation, deep breathing, or yoga. If you need a little supplemental help with relaxation, maybe try some CBD, having a drink, or other substance (only if you are somewhere that is legal.)

You can also relax with some self-care like a nice hot shower or calming bath. Whatever you would typically turn to for relaxation when stressed, use that to fall into the comforting lull of relaxation.

 

person laying in bed, naked, tangled in the comforter. Their back is arched, eyes are closed, and left hand is over head resting on pillow, right hand is clutching comforter over bare chestperson laying in bed, naked, tangled in the comforter. Their back is arched, eyes are closed, and left hand is over head resting on pillow, right hand is clutching comforter over bare chest

 

Get Aroused

So now that you are relaxed, what’s next? Arousal. 

You wouldn’t drive a vehicle that wasn’t gassed up and ready to go (or you would, I don’t know your life.) But being prepared for a journey (or, in this case, a session) makes it all the better. So get yourself aroused. 

Give some sensual self-touch a go, just gently caressing your erogenous zones. Then, turn on a stimulant, such as porn or erotica. Look at some nudes from a lover or your own. Get yourself in a place where you want sexual activity. You want to experience new forms of pleasure. You want to explore your body and all the sensations it can create and feel.

 

Fully Indulge Yourself

Now that the environment is curated, the mood set, distractions cleared, and you’re relaxed and aroused, it is time to indulge in yourself fully! Let go of the rules or what you’re “supposed” to do while masturbating and just enjoy pleasure however you feel led to. Indulge in any whim or desire that pops up for you. Be sure to keep lube handy. Friction may not be the best addition to your session unless you’re into that.

 

If all of that feels like too much work, just think about the ideal setting to experience enormous waves of pleasure and turn it into a reality wherever you plan on having your masturbation session. The great thing about masturbation is that it is truly what we want it to be, so we can make our own rules.

 

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