Mutual Masturbation 102

Masturbation with a partner is double the fun!

Even though masturbation is typically a solo act, it doesn’t mean that you can’t still have fun with your partner. Mutual masturbation is a great way to enjoy Masturbation May with some quality time with your partner(s). If you are new to mutual masturbation, we would never leave you hanging. Here you can learn the basics of mutual masturbation 101. 

In mutual masturbation 102, we give you some ideas on ways to spice it up! Here are four different ways to engage in mutual masturbation to bring a little more fun to your partnered solo time.

Power Exchange

Relinquish control to your partner and vice versa. For this mutual masturbation, you and your partner will take control of each other. Not physically, but rather be the director of their masturbation. You tell them how to stimulate and touch themselves. Be as creative, raunchy, or dirty as your heart desires. 

For example:

YOU: Tell them to gently caress their chests or inner thighs, grind on a pillow, or gently insert their fingers in and out of themselves. 

THEM: They can tell you what position to lay in as you perform their favorite activities that they like to see you do. They can give you step-by-step directions from removing your clothes to your orgasm (or not, if they want to edge you.)

Describe What You’re Doing

Masturbation is a great way to learn what you enjoy in terms of stimulation. It is also a great way to show rather than tell your partner what you enjoy. For your mutual masturbation session with your partner, take turns describing how exactly you are stimulating yourself so that they can best learn how you like it. 

Try to be as detailed as possible so that when you and your partner play together, everyone will be hitting all the right spots. If you want to add some extra oomph and a better way to remember exactly how your partner likes it, you can also record it. 

Separate Yourselves

While mutual masturbation is often performed side-by-side or near each other, one way to add an element of desire is to masturbate in separate spaces. For example, choose different areas of your house, or even put a pillow between you and your partner so that you can hear each other, but cannot see each other. 

While you get to business, pretend that no one is there so your partner can understand what turns you on and how you turn yourself on when alone. You can set rules for how your partner may sneak a peek or if they are to remain outside the door at all times. No matter how you restrict it, you and your partner can have a devilishly good time knowing someone could be watching.

They Pick, You Play

This one is fun if you have an extensive toy collection for both partners. You will take turns choosing toys, lube, kinky instruments, or anything else to use for masturbation. You can also combine this with power exchange and tell your partner exactly how to use the toy. 

You can use a suction toy, like the Womanizer Premium or the We-Vibe Melt, for nipple stimulation to get aroused. You can have them blindfold themselves while using a feather tickler to tickle themselves on their inner thighs.

Regardless of masturbation typically being considered a solo activity, there are many ways to engage in the “solo” activity with a partner and have intense fun and even more intense pleasure without ever touching each other. So, cancel your weekend plans and instead have a mutual masturbation day. 

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