Up Your Oral: Give the Best Cunnilingus Ever

Have you been looking for something sweet? Well, you are in luck because April 14th is Cake and Cunnilingus Day. This holiday was created to mirror Steak and Blowjob Day, which is celebrated on March 14th. If you are planning to participate in this sweet holiday, then I have some tips for you to ensure your cunnilingus is next level and just as good as the cake.

Now that the body is aroused, you’re gonna put your mouth to work. The key to great cunnilingus is to know that there is more than just the clitoris that can be stimulated. Use your tongue to stimulate the labia, the urethral opening, and the vaginal opening. By stimulating all the parts of the vulva, you will have toes curling and moans of ecstasy being screamed. When using your tongue try different ways of moving it–up and down, circles, light suction, figure eights–but leave spelling the alphabet with your tongue alone. I promise you that method was only good in the early 2000s when it was shared in American Pie. 

So how do you level up your cunnilingus? The first thing you are going to want to do is get the vulva aroused. Sensations are more heightened when the clitoris is aroused, and it makes it so that your partner is more relaxed and engaged in the fun. You can arouse the clitoris by kissing the inner thighs, gently massaging, and caressing the vulva, and even just having a steamy makeout session. You can see if your partner(s) are aroused by seeing if the clitoral head is plumper. This happens when the blood rushes to the clitoris and becomes erect.

Though it is cake and cunnilingus day it is important to remember to eat the cake either before or after the cunnilingus, not during. Cake and icing are super sweet and going down on someone with cake or icing on your lips or in your mouth can lead to a yeast infection. If you and your partner do choose to integrate cake and icing into the actual act, be sure to urinate and shower immediately after so that way you can minimize the chances of getting a UTI (urinary tract infection).

Now go and enjoy the sweetest meal possible–cake and cunnilingus!

Regardless of your relationship status, if you are engaging in sexual activities with other individuals making sure you are educated on STIs and their symptoms and regularly getting STI tested is important. If we all work to normalize STIs and STI testing, we can work together to minimize the spread of STIs.