The Art of the Blowjob

The Art of the Blowjob

Posted By Ashley Cobb
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The Art of the Blowjob

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Mastering the art of the blowjob can be a hard task but, with help and a little bit of practice, it can be fun and enjoyable for everyone involved.  Whether you are a newbie or an old pro looking for new tips this ultimate guide will help you give the best blow job as well connect with your partner in new ways.

 

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Consent is Key

First things first, before you can give an amazing blowjob there are a few key ingredients you need to keep in mind. The most important thing to remember when it comes to performing blowjobs is to actually want to perform the blowjob! Enthusiasm is the key to giving great head. Conveying your genuine enthusiasm is the biggest turn-on. No one wants sex of any kind from a person who makes it seem like a chore. In addition, making sure your partner enjoys it is half of what makes it fun. Check in with your partner on how you are doing, what else they might like, or how to turn you on more.

 

Groove is in the Rhythm

The next key ingredient to giving a great blowjob is rhythm. Find your partner’s rhythm. Pay attention to their stroke when masturbating or when you're having sex. Do they go faster like a rabbit or keep a steady tempo when they're about to climax? Understand the nuance of your angles to provide dynamic sensations. There are several different textures at your disposal in your mouth. The roughness of your tongue, the ridgy roof of your mouth, the smoothness of the insides of your cheeks. Use all of these textures to create dynamic pleasure for your partner. 

 

Two men, laying down in bed, shirtless, facing each other with their foreheads pressed against each other. They are smiling and intimate.Two men, laying down in bed, shirtless, facing each other with their foreheads pressed against each other. They are smiling and intimate.

 

Lube for All

The last ingredient is wetness! Most people associate lube with vaginal and/ or anal intercourse, but using lube during a blow job can make it that much more enjoyable for both you and your partner. 

Using lube during blow jobs allows you to pleasure them for longer. Giving blow jobs can be a long and tiring process depending on the person. Sore lips, dry mouth, and an achy jaw can make the job unpleasant. Apply lube to the shaft to increase their pleasure and decrease your workload. 

If you still need convincing on lube, consider a flavored lube to add a little flavor and fun for yourself. What’s better than pleasing your partner while eating dessert? Some flavored lubes I recommend are watermelon-flavored lubricants such as:

  • Skins Watermelon Water-Based Lubricant: Refreshing to the tastebuds, this water-based lubricant tastes just like the real thing that will have you enjoying every inch of your partner. 
  • JO Cocktails Pina Colada: a water-based lubricant that is packed with an intense flavor. This lubricant is alcohol-free, sugar-free, and easily moveable with water. 
  • Sliquid Swirl Natural Water-Based Lubricant: Strawberry Pomegranate adds a little fruit to your diet. This lube is lightly flavored to enhance taste,100% Vegan friendly, and glycerine free & paraben-free.

 

Get Familiar with the Penis

Understanding the anatomy of the penis, and knowing the hot spots will take your blow job game to the next level while taking out a lot of the guesswork. 


The urethral meatus, or the peehole, is an erogenous zone often overlooked. Penis owners tend to stimulate their meatus by rubbing the head of the penis on the labia before penetration. Kissing, licking, pressing, or tickling this spot can drive the receiver wild. The scrotum is the sac that holds the balls. It has several nerve endings that make it sensitive to touch. Sucking, licking, tugging, and massaging can be extremely pleasurable. The perineum is the spot between the anus and scrotum. It’s full of perineal nerves so gentle pressing, rubbing (with lube), and tickling are great ways to engage the perineum. The frenulum is the v-spot area on the underside of the penis where the glands of the penis meet the shaft. This is the most sensitive area on the penis. Kissing, licking, and rubbing this area is an effective, and titillating experience your partner will enjoy.

 

Brunette woman in a maroon bra and panty set is on top of a man in bed. She is crawling on his body, sensually, and his shirt is off. Brunette woman in a maroon bra and panty set is on top of a man in bed. She is crawling on his body, sensually, and his shirt is off.

 

Master Your Technique

Starting out with a light handjob is a great way to warm things up and using your hands helps to make the experience more pleasurable. Rub some lube on your hands and let your hands do the talking. Then slowly incorporate your mouth by starting at the testicles, and lick slowly up the bottom of the shaft to the tip of the head. Then flick your tongue in circles, concentrating on the frenulum and teasing the tip of the penis. Don't be afraid to use your tongue for different types of licks and kisses. Create gentle suction on the shaft while moving in an up and down motion. This will have your partner singing your praises all night long.

 

As you see, giving an amazing head isn’t that complicated. With a drop of lube, the right technique, and knowing your penis anatomy anyone can be a blowjob pro. 

 

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