Shopping for sex toys when you have a disability can be a little intimidating because a lot of packaging doesn’t show how the products can be used in different ways. Still, sex toys are highly versatile and can be adapted to meet your needs in various ways. If you have been looking for adaptive toys, you are in the right place. Here is a small selection of adaptive toys that couples can use, especially couples with a Penis-Vagina combination.
Positioning Aids
When it comes to sex positions, some are harder to get into and stay in without a bit of support. Using position aids like a sex stool or sex swing can give you support to try more positions without putting too much weight or force on your joints and bones. The Pivot Positioning Partner is another great choice for versatility and accessibility during partnered sex. Exploring more adaptive or accessible positions can allow you and your partner(s) to integrate toys and other tools in ways that don’t add stress to the body or over-exert you during sex.
Toys To Do More
When it comes to toys, having a toy that can be used for multiple purposes can be a game-changer for pleasure during partnered sex. The Pretty Little Wands Charmer is a great choice thanks to its super flexible body, allowing you to adjust to fit your body or the sex position you are in. Toys with longer bodies or arms, like the Snail Vibe Curve or the Pretty Little Wands Curvy, also work well in being more adaptive because you have to bend less to be able to use it on different parts of the body. Toys designed for versatility will make a good addition to your toy collection while also being versatile in different ways. The Power Couple Pleasure Tool is a top choice. It has two pieces that can be used together or separately–a long stem G-spot vibe and a finger vibe that can be worn around fingers. This tool allows for a partner to use it to do dual stimulation on another partner, as a finger vibe for all over, and for G-spot or prostate stimulation, just to name a few.
Slip & Slide To Adapt
A common area where people need adaptability in their sex lives is when it comes to moisture. Friction from lack of lubrication can drastically impact enjoyment and pleasure during sexual activities. It is common for medications, diet, menstrual cycle, and hydration to affect the body's natural lubrication. Adding in some lube is a great way to adapt to meet your body where it is at so that you still have a pleasurable time. If you struggle with vaginal wetness, consider a vaginal moisturizer like JO Renew or Ah! Yes VM. If you feel that you are lacking sensation during sexual activity, a stimulating lube, like Sliquid Spark or Ultra-Stimulating On Ice, can add some heightened sensations to your play. For folks who struggle with lubrication lasting longer, trying out a silicone lube, such as Uberlube, or a hybrid lube like Ride Bodyworx can help with the longevity of lubrication.
Sex can seem inaccessible in many different ways. Still, there are ample tools available to make it so that everyone can enjoy the sex they desire and experience pleasure on their terms. Don’t be afraid to get a little creative to find ways to adapt toys and tools to your needs in the bedroom.