Self Love the Right Way
6 New Year’s Resolutions to Practice Self Love
With the start of the new year, people are making their new year’s resolutions. The common ones include eating right or exercising more. However, January is also the month for self-love, which means to take care of your mind, body and spirit. Looking for a twist to your new year’s resolution? Check out these self-loving resolutions for the new year and give them a try.
1. Masterbate Often! Nothing could be closer to self-love than loving and pleasuring yourself. Make a commitment this year to masterbate often. It is actually healthy for you to release and no one knows yourself and what you want better than you do.
2. Find Your Perfect Toy On the same note of masturbation, you also need to have the right tools to get the ultimate results. Take some time for yourself and browse a sex shop, either the physical store or online, and try to find something that will blow your mind away. Invest in your own pleasure. Not every toy is inexpensive, but the results will be worth it. To explore our toy collection, click here.
3. Explore Porn Some people love porn and have a vast collection. Others haven’t even watched a freebie online. Take some time for some self loving and explore the porn that’s available. It’s more than just women on women or men and women having sex in an office. There’s a large variety out there, practically something special for just about everyone. Who knows, you may surprise yourself with the things that could turn you on ;)
4. Read More Your imagination can be the sexiest self-love tool out available. Stretch and strengthen your tool by taking up some sexy reading. Whether it be some romance novels of sexy vampires or pirates, to steamy manga with erotic pictures, dirty magazines, or blog articles about different sex positions, reading about sex can be just as enjoyable as having the real thing. You may also pick up a new trick or two, even from those cheesy romance novels!
5. Plan Your Sex Day Sometimes, sex can be a last minute thought, a rushed of quick emotions and actions that may leave you feeling unsatisfied. No More! For this self-love year, take some time every once in awhile and make sex an all day treat. Make the location perfect for your needs: light some candles, try out a new outfit, set up a role play scene, get out the edible lube or massage oil, and allow yourself to take your time. Make the day all about you and your pleasure.
6. Take Control of the Bedroom On a similar note, take a day to take charge of the love making. And when I say take control, I mean all control. Make sure your partner consents, then have your way with them. Tie them down to the bed and do solely what you want to do to them. Use their body to please your own. Or, have them go down on you but you control their head. Tell them what to do, where to move and how to touch you. It may be difficult at first, but once you’re warmed up it can be very pleasing for both you and your partner. They can learn more about how to please you and it will be their turn next!