Next time you decide to have fun with your partner, he is going to be in for a treat! Use these tips to make oral play fun for both him and yourself. A blowjob doesn’t have to be a job or chore, make it fun. Embrace your sexuality and have your main focus be to please him. Also, after using these tricks, he will want to up his game for you later!
1. Know What He Likes
Everyone is a little different with what they find pleasurable and what will send them over the edge. Some guys like their balls played with or like a bit of teeth, while others don’t like that all. Pay close attention to the way your partner reacts to different things you try. How you find out: know how they masterbate. What they do to please themselves can be the biggest help to what you can do to please them. Does he need visual stimulation? Give him a show to remember! Does he touch other parts of his body? Play with those areas with your hands while using your mouth on his penis. He will be thanking you.
2. Give Multiple Stimulations at Once
If you want to give the best experience possible for your man, you need to use more than just your mouth. Let your hands explore his body while you’re busy with your mouth. Tug gently on his balls, run your fingernails along his skin, or gently play with his chest. Also, bring out the toys! Girls aren’t the only ones that can enjoy vibrations. Play with a cockring, or use some flavored lube that also gives a heat or cooling sensation. He will be moaning for more!
3. It’s a Marathon, Not a Sprint
Don’t get confused: The end goal for giving him oral pleasure is for PLEASURE, not for him to climax as fast as possible. If you keep this in mind, the rest will follow. Don’t go too hard or too fast. You will wear yourself out and get a jaw cramp, and that’s not fun for either side. Take your time and let yourself enjoy the experience. He will be able to tell, and you enjoying it will make him enjoy your play even more.
4. He Needs Foreplay Too!
There are too many girls out there that think that all they need to do to please a man is to touch their penis. This can’t be farther from the truth! Men can enjoy foreplay just as much, if not more, than women. Don’t just go straight for the full penis in mouth, let your tongue explore his body. Hold him still and start with his mouth and work your way slowly down. Kiss his neck, chest, abs, and waist. Tease him with soft nibbles and licks. Try gently sucking his balls while stroking his penis or lick the area underneath his balls. That area is full of nerve endings and he will be buzzing with pleasure by the time you put your mouth to work on his dick. And even then, take your time! Slowly take your mouth down inch by inch, use your hands to stroke along with your tongue.
5. There’s A Reason Why He Likes Oral
There are big differences between giving oral pleasure versus anal or vaginal. These are the reasons why he asks for them! Your other areas don’t have a soft, warm tongue. Use it to stimulate the head of the penis while it’s inside your mouth, stroke it while moving up and down. Also, your hands have a lot more access to the region in this position. Use your hands on the bottom of the shaft while your mouth and tongue work the top. Also, his view of you is perfect. Don’t be shy, he will love getting some eye contact and a nice show of your own body while you please him.