SPRING CLEANING FOR COUPLES: How to Refresh Your Routine

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April 1, 2025
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Shake Off the Winter Rut and Reignite the Romance

Winter has a way of making everything feel a little… stuck. The same routines, the same sweatpants, the same nights spent scrolling in bed. But spring? Spring is all about renewal—and that includes your sex life.

It’s time to shake off the winter rut and freshen up your connection. Whether you’ve been feeling a little disconnected or just want to add some excitement, these five spring cleaning tips for couples will help you reset, reconnect, and reignite the passion.

1. Spring Clean Your Communication

Just like you’d declutter your home, open all the windows to let the fresh air in, and prep for a new season of fun, why not take some time to tidy up the way you and your partner communicate about intimacy? Keeping the conversation ongoing and checking in regularly helps maintain connection and ensures both partners feel heard and valued. But timing matters—bringing up concerns or desires in the middle of sex can create pressure, awkwardness, or defensiveness. Instead, find a moment when you’re both relaxed and can focus on the conversation without distractions.

When you do sit down to talk, be mindful of your language. Use "I" statements to express your needs and desires without sounding accusatory, and be honest but also be kind—talk about what excites you, what you love about your sex life, along with what you'd like to change. You can build on the foundation of your relationship when you don't just focus on problems but celebrate what works well. Making these conversations a regular part of your routine, rather than a one-time event, keeps the lines of communication open and ensures that both partners feel valued and heard.

2. Give Your Toys a Fresh Start

Your favorite pleasure products deserve a little spring clean, too! Over time, toys can collect dust, lint, and bacteria—so now’s the perfect time to make sure they’re fresh, clean, and ready for action. Wash your toys with a gentle, toy-safe cleanser (we've got a few options) and check for signs of wear. If a toy is looking worse for wear, congrats on using it to its full potential(!), but it might be time for an upgrade. Proper storage is also key—keeping them in a lint-free, breathable bag ensures they stay clean and ready for your next adventure.

3. Upgrade Your Loungewear (or lose it altogether!)

After a winter of hibernating in flannel and fleece, it's time to shed the layers and up your lingerie game. What you wear (or don’t wear) can have a big impact on how sexy you feel and how connected you are with your partner. If you’ve been stuck in the same oversized T-shirts and old sweats, switching to silky robes, lace lingerie, or even comfy-but-sexy matching loungewear can instantly transform your bedroom vibe.

Simply slipping between the sheets naked can increase skin-on-skin contact, naturally boosting intimacy, releasing feel-good hormones like oxytocin, and making for an effortless way to stay physically connected. Plus, it can be a small but powerful way to shift the mood from “roommates” to “romance.”

Refreshing your sleepwear can also be a great confidence boost. Choosing something that makes you feel attractive—whether that’s classic lingerie, a sexy something that ups the spice factor, or just a new pair of nice pajamas—can subtly shift the way you carry yourself, the signals you send, and the way your partner responds making both of you more in tune with each other’s energy.

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4. Get dirty while getting clean

Bathing together can be a deeply intimate experience—there’s something about warm water, bare skin, and taking your time that creates the perfect setting for connection. Steamy, soapy, and sensual, a candlelit bath can slow things down, inspire a little mutual exploration, and turn the everyday into an experience. Starting by washing each other’s hair or running soapy hands over your partner’s back can set the mood, opening up all kinds of avenues for what might come next.

Want to turn up the heat? Add in a waterproof vibrator or a little temperature play with warming or cooling shower gels. Let the water become part of the experience, using the sensation of steam, splashing, and the slip of a little soap to heighten the experience. And don't forget the handshower which can titillate and tease both of you. Finish the experience by wrapping each other in warm towels, giving a slow massage with body oil, or taking the experience to the bed—because some things just belong in both places.

5. Schedule Sex (Yes, Really!)

It might not sound sexy, but scheduling intimacy is one of the easiest ways to shake off the winter blahs and catch a little spring fever. Look, we all know life gets busy, we're all exhausted, and there is SO. MUCH. TV! Making a conscious effort to prioritize sex means it won’t get lost in the shuffle and gives you and your partner something to look forward to all day. Instead of waiting for the perfect moment, put it on the calendar—yes, like an actual event! Give it a code name so you get a little jolt of excitement when you're checking when your next Zoom call is. Make it fun by adding themes, like “Sensory Night” or “New Toy Tuesday,” and build anticipation throughout the day with flirty messages or teasing. And hey, if you're worried about it feeling too planned, just remember that a hot date is a hot date—even if it's with someone you already sleep with every night.

Spring is all about renewal, so why not extend that to your relationship? Just like fresh air and open windows make your home feel brand new, shaking up your routine can make everything between the sheets feel exciting again.

So go ahead—clean out the old, bring in the new, and most importantly, have some fun while you’re at it. Whether it’s a spontaneous shower session, a seductive new lingerie look, or a suggestive "meeting reminder" text in the middle of the day, these small changes can lead to big results.

Spring clean your love life, and let the season of pleasure begin.

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