All this talk about vulva’s and the best ways to achieve pleasure with one, let’s not forget about our penis owners! Especially with it being Women’s History Month, it’s important to remember it’s not what’s between your legs that defines you. Sexual pleasure as a whole is the combination of both physical and mental stimulation, and the best way to achieve it is through understanding and learning as much as we can about these sensitive areas. Let’s take a look at some that often accompany penis owners!
Penile Glans (Penis Head):
The penile glans, or the “head” of the penis is the first point of stimulation when it comes to things like penetration of any type. It might seem relatively standard that any type of stimulation would feel good, right? That’s because, with its shape and the dip that separates the glans from the shaft of the penis, it allows for more stimulation to occur as a whole. With vaginal penetration, for example, there is a smooth entry into the vagina, but when pulling out, the base of these glans are in constant opposition to the direction you are pulling. This causes it to have more surface area being stimulated at once. The glans have many nerve endings that allow for pleasurable sensations throughout the head though, so penetration isn’t the only way to achieve this goal.
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On the underside of the penis, where the shaft meets the penile glans, is a point called the frenulum. This is where a lot of the nerves go through between the shaft and the glans, making it a highly sensitive part of the penis. With all of these nerves in one place, pretty much any type of stimulation could be pleasurable. Pressure could be derived from anything like pressure, gentle flicks of the tongue or a lubed up finger, etc. It’s also relatively easy to find given it’s very well pinpointed spot. Vibration or even a pulsating suction on this area can be highly pleasurable.
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The shaft of the penis makes up nearly its entirety, and covering it is what is known as the foreskin. Unfortunately, at a young age many people are circumcised and much of their foreskin is taken away. This highly impacts the amount of pleasure one can receive in penile stimulation. The foreskin has an incredibly high number of nerve endings throughout it and is relatively easy to stimulate. The simplest method is just by using one’s hand and stroking it themselves, but any encasement and stroking of the penis can get you the same result. For many, the tighter the encasement, the more pleasure can come from it, but this isn’t the case for everyone. Make sure you experiment with it a bit to see what’s best!
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The prostate is essentially the equivalent to the G-spot on penile bodied people. It is only accessible through anal stimulation and is located just a couple of inches into the anus on the inner wall towards the abdomen. It is about the size of a walnut so it’s relatively easy to hit with a well lubed finger or other penetrative toy. Often only a little bit of pressure is needed for the desired satisfaction, but vibration and other movement can really enhance the feeling. It’s arguably the point of the most satisfaction in penis owners, so it’s in their best interest to check it out! It’s even possible to orgasm or even ejaculate just from prostate stimulation!
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The perineum is the point between the scrotum and the anus. This often unexplored area of the body is extremely sensitive and can help enhance any other stimulation. A little bit of pressure can actually add minimal bits of pressure to the prostate. Vibration can also be incredibly pleasurable as it brings some sensitivity to both the anus and scrotum at the same time, broadening the placement of the stimulation. This area can be stimulated from nearly every position and can be done either with or without a partner. It might just be what makes you have the best orgasm you’ve ever had!
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