05 Jan

Whether you’re not in the same room or not on the same continent, pleasure products manufacturers are making it easier than ever for couples to stay connected and intimate. Whether they be app-driven vibrators, remote-control stimulators, or vibrating panties, there are more ways to connect than ever before. Additionally, there are plenty of categories to choose from when selecting an item to keep you together, in a physical and metaphorical sense: remote-controlled, app-controlled, wearable vibrators, and so on. Among the best are:

LELO Tiani 3

One of LELO’s most popular couple’s vibrators, the Tiani 3 is worn by the woman during sexual intimacy to stimulate her internally and both partners externally. There are eight vibration modes and patterns: four are controlled on the toy itself, while the other four are easily cycled through thanks to the remote control. The toy’s SenseMotion technology means the Tiani 3 increase in speed and pulsation. There are issues sometimes with the Tiani 3 slipping out during sex, so be prepared to use hands to help it stay in place. Or, just let her have it inserted while he controls the remote to change up the patterns and speed at his whim. The remote works best when it’s in the same room as the Tiani 3.   

OhMiBod Krush App Connected Vibrating Kegel Exerciser Set

OhMiBod is a giant in the area of app-controlled toys. They were the first company to develop technology allowing vibes to respond to ambient sounds (music or a lover’s voice) and now they have the Krush, which not only helps women perform Kegel exercises, but allows it to be used solely for pleasure too. Technically, the Krush is compatible with two apps: the TASL and the OhMiBod Remote App. The TASL app oversees pelvic training courses, which, when completed, unlock new patterns and features in the toy. The OhMiBod Remote app uses Bluetooth to connect partners over any distance, letting them control the functions through their smartphone. The Krush looks like any other dual-ball Kegel exerciser, and it has a long, flexible silicone retrieval cord directed with a little heart at the end.

CalExotics Wristband Remote Curve 

The remote control here is a wristband that looks like any ordinary fitness tracker. Two buttons on the face of the wristband take the Curve bullet vibrator through 12 functions of speed, pulsation ad vibration for up to 180 minutes on a full charge. The wristband remote works up to 10 meters (about 33 feet) away. Perfect to wear during a night out at a club or a busy restaurant to have fun while those around are none the wiser. 

We-Vibe Moxie

We-Vibe is another big name in toys for couples looking to stay connected. The Moxie is a unique take on a panty vibe, with a magnetic piece that holds the curved vibrator in place in the crotch of panties. The cordless remote control has up/down and left/right buttons to power it through more than 10 functions of rumbling vibrations and speed. The Moxie is compatible with the company’s We-Connect app so it can be controlled by anyone, anywhere at any time. The app also lets the Moxie pair with other We-Vibe toys or even more fun. 

XR Brands Strap U Pro Rider With Remote

Pleasure products with remotes make it easier to surrender control and die yourself over to pleasure. The Strap U Pro Rider lets either partner power the piece through three speeds and six pulsation patterns as she uses the strapless strap-on (the Pro Rider has one shaft that inserts into her vagina,) to peg him.  

Magic Motion Magic Flamingo 

The Magic Flamingo looks like its namesake, with a long flexible neck that doubles as a retrieval cord for the smart Kegel exerciser. The Magic Motion smart Kegel master is made from body-safe medical silicone, with ABS plastic. It is fully waterproof, travels ready, and USB rechargeable. Download the app to your smartphone and let your lover control the speed and vibrations as foreplay while out in public.

Plug & Play Remote Control Buttplug

It’s not just vibrators for vaginas that can deliver on the hands-free fun for couples. The seven-function anal plug is tapered with a soft tip for easy insertion by either partner. The remote control feels like a game controller in the hand, so it is comfortable for user to go from mild to wild instantly. Use it in the shower, or play with the controls during sex to give either partner more thrills and chills.  

Pipedream Products Anal Fantasy Elite Remote Control P-Spot Pro

While let her have all the fun? This prostate stimulator can be used solo or during foreplay or sex and the remote means she can control the rumbling vibrations, leaving him to wonder when the next thrill will come. The remote has a single-touch control that powers the stimulator through nine patterns of speed, pulsation, and escalation. 

We-Vibe Nova

This rabbit-style vibe isn’t meant to be used in public, obviously, but it can be used across the globe thanks to the We-Vibe Connect app. Compatible with many We-Vibe products, the app in this case controls vibrations through the clitoral stimulator and the main shaft independently. Let a lover mix it up and keep her guessing on what is coming next. 

OhMiBod Club Vine 2.Oh

OhMiBod took its popular Club Vibe and made it better with a larger vibe that covers more surface area and curves to fit the contours of the body. The vibe slips snugly into a pocket lining the bottom of OhMiBod’s custom-designed black lace panties, but the vibe could work with other snug-fitting panties. The Club Vibe 2.Oh operates by pulsating to the ambient sounds around it, or with its wireless remote that boasts up to a 20-foot range.

01 Dec

2020 Red Hot Gift Set by Screaming O

Add some heat to the bedroom this holiday season with this red hot gift set! This set comes with Screaming O’s top-selling couples toys; a RingO, RingO 2, a soft-touch Vooom! bullet, a set of Screaming O Mints, and their Orny Vibe ring. 

Surrenda Oral Vibe by Nasstoys

Want to give them oral like never before? Great for a quickie, foreplay, or the main event, this uniquely designed mouth vibe turns your lips and tongue into a sensual paradise that is sure to bring your next sack session to a climactic finish!

Mini Marvels Marvelous Tickler by California Exotics

Turn your hand into a vibration station with this marvelous tickler! This handy finger vibe comes with 10 tantalizing vibrations and pleasure ridges to tease and please all your partner’s erogenous areas. Fully waterproof, you can bring this little wonder anywhere!

Afterglow Massage Candle by Jimmy Jane

Help your partner relax and unwind with this sensuous massage candle. Made of soy oil and shea butter, this massage oil will melt away tension and moisturize your partner’s skin which is perfect for these dry winter months. With the warmth from the liquefied wax, their cares will melt away!

Clone a X Kit by Empire Labs

Fear not, long-distance couples, this one is for you! With these ingenious casts from Empire Labs, you and your partner can mold each other’s genitals so you can be with them even for their solo sessions. These easy to use kits come with everything you need and are a great snowy afternoon activity!

Fetish Fantasy Series Heavy Duty Position Master by Pipedream Novelties

Everyone can always use a little support. This position master not only lends support for different positioning, but also allows you to venture into the world of lite-BDSM! This easy to use harness is fully adjustable and customizable for any romp session!

Charged Combo Kit by Screaming O

Two toys for the price of one! This kit comes with a stretchy c-ring for the penis or dong as well as a sleeve that will fit any size finger. But let’s not forget the most important part; the Vooom! bullet. The rumbly vibe offers 60+ minutes of non-stop sensation!

Fifty Shades Of Grey Pleasure Overload Sweet Sensations by Love Honey

Explore your forbidden side with this luxurious couples kit from the Fifty Shades of Grey Official Pleasure Collection. These seven compartments each contain within them a carefully curated toy or bondage accessory certain to bring you both into a pleasure overload!

01 Dec

Lock-N-Play Wristband Remote Panty Teaser by California Exotics

Knee-shaking sensations is just what the doctor ordered! This petite panty vibe attaches to nearly any pair of panties and once connected will rock their world. With 12 intense and unique vibrating sensations, the control is in your hands with the sleek and unassuming remote. Best for discreet play in public, this toy is great for beginners or experts alike!

Unite 2.0 Couples Vibrator by We Vibe

Unite for a common goal; pleasure! This incredible C-shaped vibe is expertly crafted to hug the g-spot while providing clitoral stimulation at the same time. Because it’s wearable and slender, it can be worn during penetrative sex to deliver orgasm inducing vibrations for both partners! As an added bonus, it comes with a remote to spice up bedroom play or can be worn out in public for a fun date-night activity!

Come Together Strap-on by Evolved Novelties

In 2020 it’s time to go strapless! This “strapless strapon” is perfect for those looking to break away from the traditional harness model. Designed to be worn internally, this vibe offers hands-free options for penetration and stimulation for both partners. And, because each vibe comes with it’s own motor, it’s completely customizable for the best experience possible!

Lush 2 by Lovense

Long distance love has never been so easy! This incredible, wearable, Bluetooth device inserts for fun both inside and outside the bedroom. With an amazing motor, this body-safe vibe will give you and your partner up to three continuous hours of fun!

TRYST™ v2 Bendable Multi Erogenous Zone Massager with Remote by Doc Johnson

One of the most innovative couple’s toys in years just got better! The Tryst is a luxuriously soft and smooth silicone vibe which can be used in nearly any way imaginable. Suitable for both internal and external use, this amazing toy is great for solo use but best for shared use. It also comes with not one, not two, but THREE motors to deliver 10 quiet, but powerful vibration variations. Not only that, the Tryst now comes with a remote to make your pleasure interactive and utterly effortless. 

Fifty Shades Of Grey Pleasure Overload Wicked Weekend by Lovehoney

This luxurious gift set is perfect for a weekend getaway (or staycation since its 2020). In this elegant set you’ll find an adjustable c-ring with a powerful motor, a sleek g-spot vibe, and a textured sleeve which can be worn on a penis or used on the vibe. Equipped with everything you’ll need for a night of fun, this set will not disappoint!

Wedge by Liberator

Everyone can use a little support from time to time and this device is perfect for that! The subtle slope of this positioning cushion will give you or your partner just the right amount of lift and support for a wide number of positions. It also helps get the angle juuuuuust right for deeper penetration to give new life and sensation to the old classic positions!

Be One Finger Vibrator by Fun Factory

Prepare yourselves for the greatest finger vibe! This sleek ergonomic vibe rests between you or your lovers fingers and delivers effortless vibration with every touch. With two strong motors that bounce off each other, every touch will feel electric. Perfect for foreplay, sex, or a BJ boost, this toy really does it all!

01 Dec

Silicone Pegging Probe by California Exotics

Interested in switching things up? This slender pegging probe is perfect for novices in the anal exploration department! It’s also non-phallic if you and your partner prefer more non-descript penetration probes. Made of silicone material, its body-friendly and the flat base will fit into nearly every harness!

Sukshen 6 Piece Cupping Set with Acu-Points by XR Brands

To say 2020 has been a stressful year would be an understatement so why not help your partner unwind with this cupping device! Stemming from Chinese medicine, these cups will relieve and soothe aching muscles and pressure points while also boosting sensitivity to those more intimate areas. All you have to do is apply the cups to the skin, remove the excess air with the handheld pump, and slide the cups around to massage away the tension!

Simple & True Roller Balls Massager

Relaxation at home is the name of the game this year. This easy to use massage roller fit comfortably over any size hand. The nine metal balls underneath are distributed for even pressure and require no additional lubrication!

Zinger Vibrating Cock Cage by Deeva

Turn a penis or dong into a vibrating toy at a moment’s notice! This vibrating pleasure cage is stretchy enough to fit over almost anything to enhance activity for both you and your partner. Don’t let the size fool you! This little dude sends our 22,000 vibrations per minute!

GoodHead™ - Sensations Kit - 6 pack by Doc Johnson

Nothing says “I love you” like oral! From numbing to flavors to vibrations, this kit comes with everything you’ll need to make their holiday season a very happy one.

Naughty Candy Heart by Blush Novelties

Don’t wait until Valentines Day to give your lover a symbol of your affection! This fun and naughty heart shaped butt plug is the perfect way to add some whimsy to the bedroom. They also come in three message option to customize your intentions!

Cosmo's Kinky Sex Games by Hearst Publishing

 Show your partner your fearless side with this kinky adventure pack! This set of ten frisky sex games and erotic activities will bring you both to new levels of ecstasy.

Silicone Booty Beads Double Penetrator

Give the gift of double penetration this holiday! Slip on this comfortable and easy to use toy for an added boost in the bedroom. The beaded, body-safe silicone probe is perfect for both beginner and experiences couples alike!

01 Dec

Tongue Teaser by Hott Products

Looking to take your oral game to 1,000? This amazing little vibe slips right around your tongue and will turn your mouth into a next-level pleasure giver. With 40 minutes of battery life, it's almost guaranteed to have your partner begging for more. Top tip: Add a little flavored lube to make the experience extra slippery and fun!

Vibro-Finger Wearable Stimulator – Ribbed by Icon Brands

Turn your hand into the ultimate pleasure tool with this vibrating ribbed pleasure glove! Designed for dual penetration, this flexible cover was created for maximum pleasure. With a wrist strap to keep it secured, your other hand is free to wander as it (or they) please!

Let's Fuck Dice Game by Khepher Games

Who said dice games were boring? This fun little game is a sure way to spice things up in the bedroom. Each set comes with actions and body parts which must be performed by the person rolling. The game ends when you can’t take it anymore and scream, “let’s fuck!”

Lingus by Adrian Lastic 

Ring in the New Year with a toe-curling climax! The playful flickering of the “tongue” on sensitive spots will drive your partner mad with desire. This c-ring can be worn on a penis, dong, or hand and will deliver pleasure to all.

50 Positions of Bondage Sex Position Cards by Khepher Games

Tap into your kinky side this holiday season with this playful deck of cards. These position guides will keep both you and your partner on your toes (or your knees) for hours on end. With over 100,00 possible fantasies to play out, this game will keep you entertained well into next year!

Sweet and Sexy Candy Cuffs by Hott Products

In the mood for something sweet? Lock up your love with this tasty treat. These candy cuffs will fit everyone and come in multiple flavors for every preference! 

08 Jan

3 Major Take-Always To Keep in Mind When Arguing With Your Partner

While some like to refer to arguments as “Creative Discussions”, many couples may find it difficult to have a productive conversation when engaging in an argument when emotions are at its highest. This can lead to hurt feelings, where you or your partner says something with wrong intentions and create an even wider gap between the two of you than the one that may already exist. So when having a creative discussion with your partner, how do you get the most out of it without doing the most? Here are some tips that may help you and partner have more productive conversations that won’t leave you angry and frustrated.

Stop: When it comes to arguments, there isn’t always a clear cut way to solve a problem. When we think about the steps needed in basic problem solving, an overarching theme we can take from it is organization. We all know that arguments are not organized and when arguing with your partner, you may find it difficult to organize your thoughts when you both may already be annoyed or angry with one another. The best tip I can give for that is to either take a deep breathe, lower your tone, and change your affect. Or agree to resume to the conversation at another time. Choosing to resume the conversation at another time can help you both re-group and put your thoughts together so you can talk them through more effectively.  

Listen: It can be difficult to keep your ears wide open and your mouth shut when your partner is talking for a plethora reasons. It’s very important however, because not allowing your partner to voice their opinions can cost you the opportunity to solve your problem and could potentially extend it. Try your best not to cut off your partner and allow them to speak freely and openly as possible. Another tip you can try is to summarize what your partner is saying. This is a therapeutic process used to help others feel like they are being heard and understood. This can also help the person who is listening understand and internalize what their partner is saying in the right context because context is important.

Learn: This one is more so about coming out of disagreement on an agreeable terms, whatever those terms might be, as well as getting some type of closure. Usually when I  argue with someone, I like to make sure that whatever I argue about with them, that I am not constantly re-visiting it in future discussions unless it’s to joke about it. If you find that you or your partner is bringing up something from the past quite often after an argument, it probably means that it was not properly resolved. Listen to your partner and what they are saying but also make your voice heard as well. The line of communication goes both ways and the responsibility of keeping the line open belongs to you both.



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