15 Jan

5 Common Things You Didn’t Know You Can Do On Your Period

For some including myself, that time of the month can be more than just a small nuisance. It can be a huge inconvenience, especially when you have something important to do where you would prefer that Aunt Flo not accompany you. And while the shame and stigma towards menstruation is diminishing quickly with the normalization of the female body, it may not necessarily help with getting rid of some of the reservations you may have about your own body or any negative attitudes you may have learned from others. In an effort to put an end to the negative connotations associated with Aunt Flo, here are five common things you didn’t know you can do on your period.

Have Sex

For some, sex is a huge no no when on your period, mainly because it can get quite messy. But mess is good! I mean, unless you’re doing a quickie, sex is usually messy, un-organized, and un-choreographed. Just lay down a towel and do your thing.

Masturbate

When I first started masturbating, I would be so annoyed that I couldn’t do it during my period out of fear that I would stain my sheets. It wasn’t until I saw a video on the benefits of masturbation, where I saw a tip about rubbing one out during your period and its effectiveness on reducing cramp pain that I decided to give it a try. So happy I did. Depending on how you like to masturbate, you can put down a towel, or wear a pad if you don’t want to take your panties off.

Go Swimming

Going for a dive during shark week isn’t very fun. But possible with the help of a tampon or menstrual cup. Swimmers and athletes do it all the time and it is completely normal and good for treating cramp pain in some cases. This tip can also be used when getting into a hot tub or Jacuzzi with your partner or a group of friends.

Get a Wax

The idea of getting waxed down there during that of the month can be daunting for many reasons. For one, some women can experience a lower tolerance to pain which can cause your wax to be more painful than normal. I just wanted to note however, that if you did want to get a wax while on your period and think that it would be weird or un-heard of do such things, I want to let you know that many spas and wax studios do wax clients during that time of the month. Policies vary from place to place so make sure you ask in advance before booking an appointment and make sure to bring a tampon or menstrual cup to wear during the service.

Wear Whatever You Want

Of course this goes without saying because you can always wear what you want. I do find that women tend to avoid wearing bright colored bottoms and dresses during that time of the month out of paranoia. If you are worried about staining your bottoms and dresses with blood, especially in public, simply wear a menstrual cup or a larger pad or panty liner. Works a like a charm in most instances.

Final Thoughts

While these things are very simple, it’s always good to have these things affirmed constantly so that the conversations around menstruation continue and we can put an end to the shame and stigma that comes from having your period. I would also encourage you to share this article with those in your life who have either just started menstruation or the men in your life who can use a lesson or two on periods.

 

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08 Aug

How to Have your First Threesome

5 things to know before going in and different positions

1. Communication with the others are important
If you’re going in with your partner, remember to talk ahead of time what you are and aren’t alright with you or your partner doing. Better to speak ahead of time than hurt feelings after. And with everyone, make sure you’re clear what you’re comfortable with handling and where on your body. Know who’s going to be where and what is okay to do.

2. The third person is Important
This is for those who are going into a threesome and one other person. Some prefer the third to be a stranger so there are no strings attached after, and others prefer someone they know and are comfortable with. However, be very careful mixing friendship and sex. Make sure you are clear about what expected and what you’re feelings are with the friend if you are going that path.

3. Planning and Location
By far, what people who have successful threesomes suggest is planning ahead of time. This comes down to everyone knowing what everyone else is doing, what the relationship is expected to be before and after the event, and where it’s going to be. Hotels are the best choice to have a threesome because there’s no risk for a mistake following you home and no memories attached to your home. But, don’t forget protection as well. Accidents can happen even in a threesome.

4. Make sure everyone is involved
Threesomes are made for three participants the entire time. Even if you are favoring one over the other, do not exclude them from the fun. Don’t pair off, that will leave a third wheel and hurt feelings.

5. Leave Romance at the Door
There’s no time for romance with two people. This is meant to be a sexy fantasy, and an intense one. Be ready to get down and dirty right away.

Positions

The Daisy Chain:
For F/F/M, one female sits on the bed and one in sitting on the floor at the edge of the bed with the male behind doggy style. The one on the ground will between the other female’s legs. This is a great position for the two females to switch in the middle, allowing for two different sensations.

Double Penetration:
Designed for M/M/F. One male penetrates a woman (either anally or vaginally) while another guy is in the other one. This is great because if the female is game for both penetrations, it can stimulate her in both sides. And men often fantasize completely filling a female on both ends. Win win for everyone!

The Strap-On:
Designed for F/M/F or M/M/F, this could mean that one woman wears a strap-on and enters the male or enters the other woman. The bottom could be another male as well. This is a great position to also include a toy in the fun, creating a chain of pleasure with the men and women.

The G-Spot Jiggy:
Designed for M/F/F, the man is on his knees penetrating one woman from behind, while another woman is on her back, laying underneath both while licking his balls and the other woman at the same time. If that sounds intense, that’s because it really, really is — in the best way possible.

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