How to Have your First Threesome

5 things to know before going in and different positions

1. Communication with the others are important
If you’re going in with your partner, remember to talk ahead of time what you are and aren’t alright with you or your partner doing. Better to speak ahead of time than hurt feelings after. And with everyone, make sure you’re clear what you’re comfortable with handling and where on your body. Know who’s going to be where and what is okay to do.

2. The third person is Important
This is for those who are going into a threesome and one other person. Some prefer the third to be a stranger so there are no strings attached after, and others prefer someone they know and are comfortable with. However, be very careful mixing friendship and sex. Make sure you are clear about what expected and what you’re feelings are with the friend if you are going that path.

3. Planning and Location
By far, what people who have successful threesomes suggest is planning ahead of time. This comes down to everyone knowing what everyone else is doing, what the relationship is expected to be before and after the event, and where it’s going to be. Hotels are the best choice to have a threesome because there’s no risk for a mistake following you home and no memories attached to your home. But, don’t forget protection as well. Accidents can happen even in a threesome.

4. Make sure everyone is involved
Threesomes are made for three participants the entire time. Even if you are favoring one over the other, do not exclude them from the fun. Don’t pair off, that will leave a third wheel and hurt feelings.

5. Leave Romance at the Door
There’s no time for romance with two people. This is meant to be a sexy fantasy, and an intense one. Be ready to get down and dirty right away.


The Daisy Chain:
For F/F/M, one female sits on the bed and one in sitting on the floor at the edge of the bed with the male behind doggy style. The one on the ground will between the other female’s legs. This is a great position for the two females to switch in the middle, allowing for two different sensations.

Double Penetration:
Designed for M/M/F. One male penetrates a woman (either anally or vaginally) while another guy is in the other one. This is great because if the female is game for both penetrations, it can stimulate her in both sides. And men often fantasize completely filling a female on both ends. Win win for everyone!

The Strap-On:
Designed for F/M/F or M/M/F, this could mean that one woman wears a strap-on and enters the male or enters the other woman. The bottom could be another male as well. This is a great position to also include a toy in the fun, creating a chain of pleasure with the men and women.

The G-Spot Jiggy:
Designed for M/F/F, the man is on his knees penetrating one woman from behind, while another woman is on her back, laying underneath both while licking his balls and the other woman at the same time. If that sounds intense, that’s because it really, really is — in the best way possible.