Whether you’re not in the same room or not on the same continent, pleasure products manufacturers are making it easier than ever for couples to stay connected and intimate. Whether they be app-driven vibrators, remote-control stimulators, or vibrating panties, there are more ways to connect than ever before. Additionally, there are plenty of categories to choose from when selecting an item to keep you together, in a physical and metaphorical sense: remote-controlled, app-controlled, wearable vibrators, and so on. Among the best are:

LELO Tiani 3

One of LELO’s most popular couple’s vibrators, the Tiani 3 is worn by the woman during sexual intimacy to stimulate her internally and both partners externally. There are eight vibration modes and patterns: four are controlled on the toy itself, while the other four are easily cycled through thanks to the remote control. The toy’s SenseMotion technology means the Tiani 3 increase in speed and pulsation. There are issues sometimes with the Tiani 3 slipping out during sex, so be prepared to use hands to help it stay in place. Or, just let her have it inserted while he controls the remote to change up the patterns and speed at his whim. The remote works best when it’s in the same room as the Tiani 3.   

OhMiBod Krush App Connected Vibrating Kegel Exerciser Set

OhMiBod is a giant in the area of app-controlled toys. They were the first company to develop technology allowing vibes to respond to ambient sounds (music or a lover’s voice) and now they have the Krush, which not only helps women perform Kegel exercises, but allows it to be used solely for pleasure too. Technically, the Krush is compatible with two apps: the TASL and the OhMiBod Remote App. The TASL app oversees pelvic training courses, which, when completed, unlock new patterns and features in the toy. The OhMiBod Remote app uses Bluetooth to connect partners over any distance, letting them control the functions through their smartphone. The Krush looks like any other dual-ball Kegel exerciser, and it has a long, flexible silicone retrieval cord directed with a little heart at the end.

CalExotics Wristband Remote Curve 

The remote control here is a wristband that looks like any ordinary fitness tracker. Two buttons on the face of the wristband take the Curve bullet vibrator through 12 functions of speed, pulsation ad vibration for up to 180 minutes on a full charge. The wristband remote works up to 10 meters (about 33 feet) away. Perfect to wear during a night out at a club or a busy restaurant to have fun while those around are none the wiser. 

We-Vibe Moxie

We-Vibe is another big name in toys for couples looking to stay connected. The Moxie is a unique take on a panty vibe, with a magnetic piece that holds the curved vibrator in place in the crotch of panties. The cordless remote control has up/down and left/right buttons to power it through more than 10 functions of rumbling vibrations and speed. The Moxie is compatible with the company’s We-Connect app so it can be controlled by anyone, anywhere at any time. The app also lets the Moxie pair with other We-Vibe toys or even more fun. 

XR Brands Strap U Pro Rider With Remote

Pleasure products with remotes make it easier to surrender control and die yourself over to pleasure. The Strap U Pro Rider lets either partner power the piece through three speeds and six pulsation patterns as she uses the strapless strap-on (the Pro Rider has one shaft that inserts into her vagina,) to peg him.  

Magic Motion Magic Flamingo 

The Magic Flamingo looks like its namesake, with a long flexible neck that doubles as a retrieval cord for the smart Kegel exerciser. The Magic Motion smart Kegel master is made from body-safe medical silicone, with ABS plastic. It is fully waterproof, travels ready, and USB rechargeable. Download the app to your smartphone and let your lover control the speed and vibrations as foreplay while out in public.

Plug & Play Remote Control Buttplug

It’s not just vibrators for vaginas that can deliver on the hands-free fun for couples. The seven-function anal plug is tapered with a soft tip for easy insertion by either partner. The remote control feels like a game controller in the hand, so it is comfortable for user to go from mild to wild instantly. Use it in the shower, or play with the controls during sex to give either partner more thrills and chills.  

Pipedream Products Anal Fantasy Elite Remote Control P-Spot Pro

While let her have all the fun? This prostate stimulator can be used solo or during foreplay or sex and the remote means she can control the rumbling vibrations, leaving him to wonder when the next thrill will come. The remote has a single-touch control that powers the stimulator through nine patterns of speed, pulsation, and escalation. 

We-Vibe Nova

This rabbit-style vibe isn’t meant to be used in public, obviously, but it can be used across the globe thanks to the We-Vibe Connect app. Compatible with many We-Vibe products, the app in this case controls vibrations through the clitoral stimulator and the main shaft independently. Let a lover mix it up and keep her guessing on what is coming next. 

OhMiBod Club Vine 2.Oh

OhMiBod took its popular Club Vibe and made it better with a larger vibe that covers more surface area and curves to fit the contours of the body. The vibe slips snugly into a pocket lining the bottom of OhMiBod’s custom-designed black lace panties, but the vibe could work with other snug-fitting panties. The Club Vibe 2.Oh operates by pulsating to the ambient sounds around it, or with its wireless remote that boasts up to a 20-foot range.